Update docker image to 1.1 + changes in vscode settings.

• adds new container imagefile version 1.1
  • cuda 12.2
  • clangd 16
• update CI to image 1.1
  • enable gpu build of python bindings
• changed .devcontainer to 1.1
  • removed flylint
  • adds clang-format checker
  • disable cpptools (as we are only using clangd)
• add wachterexlude for vscode settings, as vscode complains about large workspace
• adds .clangd file to improve cuda cuda
• adds DrivenCavityUniform and DrivenCavityMultiGPU to BUILD_VF_ALL_SAMPLES in cmake
• also adding CUDA_RESOLVE_DEVICE_SYMBOLS for VirtualFluids_GPU -> with this cpp binaries (e.g. DrivenCavity) without further cuda usage, don't have to be cuda targets