Update cmake to dev version.

Make the cmake project more flexible while removing the CMAKE_SOURCE_DIR usage.

Set CMake Output directories for runtime, library, archive and pdb files for all libraries and executuables.

Renmade HOST in GridGenerator to CUDA_HOST because of a name conflict to MPI

Made VF_GPU work with the "new" cmake

Changed the setting the compiler options to the new cmake function: target_compile_options