Update cmake to dev version.

Few refactorings in cmake. Remove the old openmp flag. Put the intel and gcc libraries in the compiler file.

Make use of the new cmake command: target_link_options, target_compile_options and target_compile_definitions.

Move VirtualFluids header to src.
Add CI file and add files, only existing in the open source version.

Exclude the cmake .in.h file from the cmake target.

Add public target include directories to the cmake targets. Therefore the IncludeList.cmake files are not necessary anymore.
ADapt the export macros in the gks libraries.
Add 3rd/vtk helper cmake macro.
Gorup muparser into 3rd subfolder in visual studio project.

Make the cmake project more flexible while removing the CMAKE_SOURCE_DIR usage.

Make the cmake project more flexible while removing the CMAKE_SOURCE_DIR usage.