Exchange DEPENDS (which links everything private) variable with PUBLIC_LINK and PRIVATE_LINK. Therefore VirtualFluidsCPU is linking everything public know. Everything else is still linking private.

Make the cmake project more flexible while removing the CMAKE_SOURCE_DIR usage.

Remove unused stuff and the global include from VirtualFluidsDefinition.h. Adds missing export includes.

Adds authors and contributing file. Clean up the readme file.
Set the minimum cmake version to 3.13 according to the readme entry.
Set the options BUILD_VF_CPU, BUILD_VF_GPU and BUILD_VF_UNIT_TEST to OFF by default.

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