Remove unused stuff and the global include from VirtualFluidsDefinition.h. Adds missing export includes.

Adds authors and contributing file. Clean up the readme file.
Set the minimum cmake version to 3.13 according to the readme entry.
Set the options BUILD_VF_CPU, BUILD_VF_GPU and BUILD_VF_UNIT_TEST to OFF by default.

Warning: [-Wbackslash-newline-escape]
https://stackoverflow.com/questions/31673945/clang-backslash-and-newline-separated-by-space-in-single-line-comment

Changed the setting the compiler options to the new cmake function: target_compile_options